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2018 Palm Valley School Pride

November 29, 2018 by szachik@pvs.org 3 Comments

By AJ Patencio

On November 4th, Palm Springs held its 32nd annual Palm Springs Pride Parade, and the PVS Gender Sexuality Acceptance (GSA) Club was there to represent our loving community. We were put in spot 79 and given a banner with a colorful take on the Palm Valley Firebird logo. I was one of the GSA members who joined them, and it was an amazing experience to march through the streets while surrounded by my friends. I’m glad to have experienced it in my senior year before I go off to college. However, it’s not my first time participating in the Safe Schools march at the Palm Springs Pride Parade.

During my freshman year, before PVS had a GSA club, I was one of the only openly gay students in the Upper School. Our English teacher at the time, Mr. Griffin, had talked with the advisor for Palm Spring High School’s GSA club and received permission to send any of our students who wanted to participate in the Pride Parade with them. He handed out flyers, but I was the one student from our school who actually went. I was dropped off near the parade and had to walk alone to meet with the PSHS group, and I knew none of them. I was an alone 14 year old surrounded by people I didn’t know in a loud and crowded place. It was a memorable experience, but not in a good way.

This year was different. I’m 17 now. I was with friends and people I knew and trusted. I was never alone and  always easy to find, as I had a giant rainbow umbrella that unintentionally attacked anyone who got too close. We had school GSA shirts and many rainbow-colored tattoos. I learned of a certain teacher’s habit of putting empty gift cards in his wallet. I ate greasy pizza with my friends as we laughed at a cringy pamphlet. I met enthusiastic parents that were proud of what their kids were doing. I got to have an amazing experience that I won’t forget. I felt happy with who I am, and I’m glad that others will be able to experience this in the future.

Editor: Holden Hartle

Filed Under: Op-Ed, School Events Tagged With: 2018 Palm Valley School Pride, AJ Patencio

Comments

  1. Moraino Patencio says

    November 30, 2018 at 6:10 am

    I was so proud of you when you walked alone in your truth. I am even more proud that you were a part of building that supportive and loving community. You are making the world a better place by being yourself.
    Your loving father.

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  2. Lisa Patencio says

    November 30, 2018 at 4:58 pm

    “I’m glad that others will be able to experience this in the future” I am too. -Proud Mom

    Reply
  3. kenny sarkis says

    December 1, 2018 at 10:08 pm

    A powerful personal testimony to the positive effects
    of respecting diversity,
    creating “family”,
    enlightening self-awareness
    and demonstrating Values.

    Well documented.
    Thanks AJ

    Reply

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