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18 Inspirational Quotes about Making the Right Choice

February 10, 2021 by szachik@pvs.org Leave a Comment

Editor Erik asked the Blog Staff to write about “Missed Opportunities.” For those of you debating whether to jump at that next opportunity, Hannah’s compiled a list of quotes to keep under advisement. Dear reader, guide yourself through life by making the right choices.

By Hannah Hall

Missing opportunities result in probably one of the worst feelings ever, in my opinion. But, when you miss an opportunity,  it is most likely going to be for the logical reason of the risk being too high. And, even if you do take the chance, you have to think: Is it worth it when you are left with emotional, financial, or physical repercussions? I honestly say, no, but if you are in a sticky situation that requires you to either be all in or all out, I recommend you read these quotes and allow them to guide you towards making the right choice. Because, in the end, making the right decision is the best decision–even if you miss an opportunity. 

“The only way of catching a train I have ever discovered is to miss the train before.” ― G.K. Chesterton

“We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.” — Khalil Gibran

“Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss.” — Eric Roth

“I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.” — Michael Jordan

“Why cry about missed opportunities when you have the ability to smile at opportunities lived?” — Greg Plitt

“Sometimes it’s the smallest decisions that can change your life forever.” — Keri Russell

“Excuses will always be there for you. Opportunity won’t.”  — Anonymous 

“Don’t live in regret over missed opportunities, for if you do, you will miss even more.”  ― Charbel Tadros

“We are free to choose our paths, but we can’t choose the consequences that come with them.” — Sean Covey

“He missed an invaluable opportunity to hold his tongue.” — Andrew Lang

“Stop worrying about missed opportunities and start looking for new ones.” — I. M. Pei

“What goes around, comes around.” — Willie Nelson

“I’ll make the right decision, whichever one it is. I have to be 100 percent, not 95 or 99.” — Karl Malone

“Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. But if you do, make new ones. Life is too short to make the wrong choice twice.”  ― Joyce Rachelle

“We never regret the love we give, / We regret giving it to the wrong people …”  ― Samiha Totanji

“Sometimes you make the right decision, sometimes you make the decision right.” — Dr. Phil 

“All the roads you regret for not going to the end represent the alternative lives you have missed!”  ― Mehmet Murat İldan

“The only way to make the right decision is to find out which is the wrong decision, to examine that other path without fear, and only then decide.” — Paulo Coelho

Hopefully, reading these quotes have inspired you to take the path that is right for you. Take what resonates with you, and go. If you don’t, that choice could very well end up being your next missed opportunity.

Missed Opportunities Editor: Erik Bearman

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Win Some; Lose Some

February 10, 2021 by szachik@pvs.org Leave a Comment

Editor Erik assigned the Blog Staff to write about “Missed Opportunities.” Jake catalogues some of his “misses.”

By Jake Sonderman

Sometimes, you don’t realize you’ve missed something ‘til you’ve missed it. I try to take every opportunity that comes my way, but sometimes I let some slip. Here’s some opportunities that I let slip through the cracks.

Bret Michaels

This is the one that really stings. My band was playing Stagecoach (for like 30 people). A friend who somehow knew Bret Michaels (who was also playing at Stagecoach for like 20,000 people), somehow got him to invite us to play a song with him during his show. We were going to play “Nothing But a Good Time,” the finale. We were prepared, learned the song, went backstage, the whole thing. Something went wrong during the soundcheck, and they rescinded their offer. As consolation, he invited us up on stage with a bunch of other dudes. Still cool, but I frequently think what it would’ve been like to play for so many people. 

High School Musical

I really wish this wasn’t the first show I auditioned for. It was likely the only one I had a chance of getting cast for. In case you didn’t know, Disney+ came out with a High School Musical show. I auditioned for Big Red, and I dropped the ball a bit. I got a call back and auditioned on the Disney lot. I dropped the ball by forgetting a line, and once you forget one, it all comes falling apart. I’ve done many auditions since, and if I perhaps had some experience I would have practiced better and been cast. Maybe not. Who knows. 

Gamestop

This is an opportunity that many missed out on. I was, however, looking at Gamestop and Reddit a couple days before the insanity. I thought in my head, “People are talking about it, but why would people buy Gamestop stock when nobody buys physical games anymore?” I almost got in at $30 a share then $90 a share in a couple days. I missed out. But, hey, as Kyle says, “No one cares if you almost bought something.”

SAG

This is sort of double sided. I had a chance after I did an UberEats commercial to be a part of the Screen Actors Guild. It has a $3,000 initial fee and another $200 yearly fee, but it still would have been cool. I also would have had access to some very big auditions (but also would have had more competition). All in all, I don’t totally regret it, but it still would have been a cool thing to put on college apps. 

Piano

I know that there was no way I would keep doing piano after 4th grade, but I sure wish I did. Piano is definitely something with a steep learning curve. I wish I had kept with it, not just to be a good piano player, but so I had at least some coordination. Now, with any instrument, my biggest challenge is always coordination. And, it goes without saying, being a good piano player is very charming. 

These are some of my missed opportunities. We all have them. But, the past is in the past. Keep looking forward. (Need help looking forward? Check out Elizabeth’s post on “Regrets.”)

Missed Opportunities Editor: Erik Bearman

Filed Under: Missed Category Tagged With: Jake Sonderman, Win Some; Lose Some

Invest or Starve

February 8, 2021 by szachik@pvs.org 1 Comment

Tasked with discussing the theme of “Missed Opportunity,” Blogger Evan decided to educate people about how to avoid missing money-making opportunities. Evan tells us how to invest better, without regrets.

By Evan Spry

In this day and age, there are only really two ways to make money. You can either earn an income by working, or you can invest in assets. In this article, I will make the case for the latter money-making method. Have you ever wondered what really goes on in the stock market, you know, the thing that supposedly measures the stability and success of our economy even though it only represents a minuscule group of elite corporations? Well, I think the simplicity of it all will actually surprise you. We’ve all been told that it is much too complicated for the average person to understand investing, and that only the minority of CEOs and hedge-fund managers could possibly benefit from the stock market. It used to be, you had to invest through a stockbroker, or go to the bank. Nowadays, the absolute best thing about investing in the stock market is that anyone can do it. And, there are just too many benefits in investing to ignore this money-making opportunity. Here are the top five reasons you must invest your money:

  1. Beat Inflation: In our world, almost everything fluctuates over time. This fluctuation happens a lot in economics, and one of the best examples of this is the increase and decrease in the value of certain countries’ currencies. This fluctuation also increases inflation, like how in India, “100 rupees today would only be 96.5 rupees next year according to recent Indian inflation statistics, which implies that you would lose 4.5% of your money every year if kept as cash” (Businesstoday.in). This simply means that if you were to invest your money into something, instead of having it as cash, you would have saved money.
  2. Retirement Corpus Creation: Investing as soon as possible is best because while doing so, you can set aside funds for retirement and create a retirement corpus.* This corpus will accumulate wealth over time, adding a safety net of savings for the future. Of course, in this case, time is almost more valuable than the money itself, so you should start this process as soon as possible. 
  3. Tax-Saving: Some possible investments can give you a double-return by “…providing returns as well as reducing your taxable income” (Businesstoday.in). This is saving money. And saving money is making money! 
  4. High Returns: Another reason I urge you to invest is the fact that investing helps you achieve higher returns than a bank’s saving account. The average interest rate today on savings accounts is .05% (smartasset.com). Some markets could even provide returns upwards of 20 percent, if everything goes perfectly. So, investing in the market will make you more money over time, but there are still the obvious risks involved. 
  5. Wealth Creation: The last reason investing is something you need to do is probably the simplest, plain old wealth creation. If you invest your money, it allows it to grow, which can offer big returns for it in the future. Allowing your money to compound positively is probably the best thing you can do, so invest!

*Retirement corpus is the fund you need to put aside as savings by the end of your work life to receive an adequate pension for your retired life (aegonlife.com).

**All investment strategies and investments involve risk of loss. Nothing contained in this website should be construed as investment advice. Any reference to an investment’s past or potential performance is not, and should not be construed as, a recommendation or as a guarantee of any specific outcome or profit.

https://www.businesstoday.in/current/economy-politics/beginners-guide-for-wealth-creation-why-should-you-invest/story/278719.html

Missed Opportunities Editor: Erik Bearman 

Filed Under: Missed Category Tagged With: Evan Spry, Invest or Starve

Say Goodbye to Regrets

February 8, 2021 by szachik@pvs.org Leave a Comment

This week, bloggers are discussing “Missed Opportunities.” Blogger Elizabeth moves beyond personal missed opportunity to how we can all move past regrets in life and embrace the positive.

By Elizabeth Shay

There are times in our lives when we look back to the past at missed opportunities. The predominant emotion that we feel when reflecting on missed opportunities is regret. It can be hard to recover and thrive after a missed opportunity, but sometimes they can be a blessing in disguise. Here are three tips to help you live your best life without regrets and grow from your experiences:

Acknowledge that regret is normal…

All emotions have a function for survival, including regret. Our brain uses regret to tell us to take another look at our choices. Regret stems from counterfactual thinking, or the human tendency to create possible alternatives to life events that have already occurred (Wikipedia), and the easier it is to envision different outcomes, the more likely we are to regret life opportunities (Psychology Today). 

Identify the positives…

Sometimes things happen for a reason. Your missed opportunities could be a blessing in disguise, as cliched as that sounds. Instead of dwelling on what you may have missed out on, reframe your thinking into the positive. Brainstorm and consider things in your current life that you are grateful for that may not be a part of your life had you taken a different path. This will allow you to move forward (Inc).

Look to the future…

Rather than remaining bogged down with the weight of the past, search for the next opportunity awaiting you in the future. Recognize what is important to you and what your goals are, and now that you have experience and a clear vision, you will be able to capitalize on opportunities as they come. At the same time, don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone because you never know where those spontaneous decisions could lead. The road on the journey of life is not always clear; there is no map to reach our final destination. So why not experience all that you can along the way?

Sources Referenced:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mindful-self-express/201205/the-psychology-regret

https://www.inc.com/young-entrepreneur-council/change-your-mindset-stop-dwelling-on-past-mistakes-with-these-7-tips.html

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Counterfactual_thinking#:~:text=Counterfactual%20thinking%20is%20a%20concept,%22counter%20to%20the%20facts%22.

Missed Opportunity Editor: Erik Bearman

Filed Under: Missed Category Tagged With: Elizabeth Shay, Say Goodbye to Regrets

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